TechnoSparks Graham so, when the forum is ready to be built in the building tool, how will it be on the user's website?

to clarify this, i mean,

1. how can i access the forum i have created from my site?
2. will the forum i created has somewhat connections to the original XtGem's forum? (forum.xtgem.com)

also, i think the good old 'friends' system is good. why won't implement it in XtGem, so that we can add users each other as friends?